All men have sexual fantasies, including you! If you are wondering how you can get a girl to allow you to do it in her mouth, you are not alone – thousands of men reading this article are thinking about the same thing, so it’s time to reveal the truth.

  • It’s always better to ask for forgiveness than permission. If you even have to ask her, “Can I do it in your mouth?” you’ve already lost. I know this sounds bizarre, but let me explain. We all know that women love reading Fifty Shades of Grey, and if you think about what’s happening in that story, you’ll realise that women want to be dominated by powerful men in the bedroom. Hence, it’s your responsibility to dominate her in bed and make her feel good about it. But please note that when she says “no” and also physically pushes you away at the same time, that means she doesn’t want to do it. Otherwise, it’s on. Of course, in order to make things easier for you, you have to start the foreplay before bedroom time begins, meaning you should spend some quality time with her before you go to bed with her at night, because her mood is usually determined by her experiences throughout the day. Then as you are ready to do it in her mouth, you can just suggest that you would like a blowjob because you are fascinated by sexual variety. Now you can just do it in her mouth. If she blames you for ejaculating in her mouth, you can ask for forgiveness later.

Remember: How you say it is just as important as what you say.

  • Always communicate your need for sexual variety to this chick. This is a great way to pre-frame the situation – she should know that you are very interested in sexual variety in the bedroom before you do it in her mouth. Because many women also watch porn, they know it’s common to swallow men’s cucumber. Some chicks pretend to be shy because they don’t want to be seen as sluts. Therefore, all you need to do is to make sure that she knows you are the least judgmental person in the world. You can say, “I really like it when women are open-minded and relaxed.” This applies to every woman that you meet because you are rewarding her sluttiness, which is very important if you’d like to do it in a woman’s mouth.

  • After you’ve done it in her mouth, reward her good behaviour as soon as possible. In psychology, this is called “positive reinforcement”, i.e. when she does something good for you, you should encourage her to do it again by giving her a reward immediately. For instance, if this chick has given you a fantastic blowjob and you did it in her mouth, you would be well-advised to take her to a fancy restaurant the next day. Then she will want to swallow it again soon!

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